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30 April Must read if you are going to buy a carHello everyone!
If you are going to be buying a car soon, you must read this article.
No matter who you buy from, always look over the vehicle thoroughly and take it to a mechanic for a complete inspection. Dress in old clothes and give the car a good going-over. You can learn a great deal just by using your eyes, ears, and nose. Take along a friend for help. Do your inspection in broad daylight on a dry day. Floodlighted lots can make cars look shiny and can hide body defects. The car should be parked on a level surface and shouldn't have been driven for at least an hour before your inspection. EXTERIOR Body condition. Check each body panel and the roof, looking for scratches, dents, and rust. Examine the lines of the fenders and doors. Misaligned panels or large gaps can indicate either sloppy assembly at the factory or shoddy repair. The paint color and finish should be the same on every body panel. If you think a dent may have been patched with body filler, put a small magnet on it; it won't stick to an area with body filler. If other parts of the car have been repainted, there may be signs of "overspray," or paint adhering to the rubber seals around the hood and trunk lid. Minor cosmetic flaws and light scratches are no cause for concern, but rust is. Check the outer body for blistered paint or rust. Also inspect the wheel wells, rocker panels (the sheet metal beneath the doors), and the bottoms of the doors. Bring a flashlight for looking inside the wheel wells for rust or corrosion. Open and close each door, the hood, and the trunk. Gently lift and let go of each door, particularly the driver's door. If the door seems loose on its hinges, the car has seen hard or long use. Inspect any rubber seal for tearing or rot. Glass. Look carefully at the windshield and windows to make sure there are no cracks or large pocked areas. A small stone chip may not be cause for alarm, though you should bring it up as a bargaining point in negotiations. But cracks in the windshield will worsen and lead to a costly repair. Suspension. Walk around the car to see if it's standing level. Bounce each corner up and down. If the shock absorbers are in good shape, the car should rebound just once; it shouldn't keep moving up and down. Grab the top of each front tire and tug it back and forth. If you feel play in it or hear a clunking or ticking sound, the wheel bearings or suspension joints may be shot. Lights and lenses. Have a friend confirm that all lights are working. Make sure all light lenses and reflectors are intact and not cracked, fogged with moisture, or missing. Tires. You can tell a lot from the tires. A car with less than, say, 20,000 miles on the odometer should probably still have its original tires. Be wary of a low-mileage car with new tires; the vehicle's odometer may have been rolled back. Also check that all four tires are the same. Any different tires may show that they have been replaced. Tread wear should be even across the width of the tread and the same on the left and right sides of the car. Ask if the tires have been regularly rotated. If not, the wear is usually more severe on the drive wheels. Aggressive drivers tend to put heavy wear on the outside shoulder of the front tires, at the edge of the sidewall. Assume that the car has been driven hard if that area is badly worn relative to the rest of the tire. Tires that have been driven while overinflated tend to wear more in the middle than on the sides. Chronically underinflated tires show more wear on the sides. Cupped tires, those that are worn unevenly along the tread's circumference, may be a sign of a problem with the steering, suspension, or brakes. Tires must have at least 1/16 inch of tread to be legal. Check the tread depth either with a tread-depth tool (available at auto-parts stores) or a quarter. Insert the quarter into the tread groove, with Washington's head down. If you can see the top of his head, the tire should be replaced. Examine the sidewalls for scuffing, cracks, or bulges, and look on the edge of each rim for dents or cracks. And be sure to check that the spare is in good shape and that the proper jack and lug wrench are present. INTERIOR It's the inside of a car that may matter most in the long run since that's where you'll be spending the most time with the car. Odor. When you first open the car door, sniff the interior. A musty, moldy, or mildewy smell could indicate water leaks. Remove the floor mats, and check for wet spots on the carpet. An acrid smell may indicate the car was used by a smoker. Check the lighter and ashtray for evidence. Some odors can be hard to get rid of. If you don't like what you smell, find another car. Seats. Try out all the seats even though you may not plan to sit in the rear. Upholstery shouldn't be ripped or badly worn, particularly in a car that's supposed to have low miles on it. Try all the driver's seat adjustments to make sure they work properly and that you can find a good driving position. Pedals. The rubber on the brake, clutch, and gas pedals gives an indication of use. A car with low miles shouldn't show much wear. If the pedal rubber is worn through in spots-or brand new-it indicates high miles. Instruments and controls. Turn the ignition switch, but without starting the engine. All the warning lights—including the "Check engine" light—should illuminate for a few moments. They should then go off when you start the engine. Note if the engine is hard to start when cold and if it idles smoothly. Then try out every switch, button, and lever. With the engine running, turn on the heater full blast and see how hot it gets—and how quickly. Switch on the air conditioning and make sure it quickly blows cold. Sound system. Check radio reception on AM and FM. If there is a CD or tape player, try loading and ejecting a compact disc or tape. Roof. Check the headliner for stains or sags to see if water is leaking through ill-fitting doors or windows. If equipped with a sunroof or moonroof, check to see if it opens and closes properly and seals well when shut. Inspect the convertible top for tears by shining a flashlight up into it. Trunk. Use your nose as well as your eyes. Sniff and look for signs of water entry. See if the carpeting feels wet or smells musty, and check the spare-tire well for water or rust. UNDER THE HOOD: ENGINE-RELATED COMPONENTS It's best to make these checks with the engine cool to avoid being burned. Look first at the general condition of the engine bay. Dirt and dust are normal, but be wary if you see oil spattered about or on the pavement under the engine compartment, a battery covered with corrosion, or wires and hoses hanging loose. Hoses and belts. Squeeze the various rubber hoses running to the radiator, air conditioner, and other parts. The rubber should be firm and supple, not rock-hard, cracked, or mushy. Feel the drive belts to determine whether they are frayed. Fluids. Check all fluid levels. The owner's manual will point out where to look. Engine oil should be dark brown or black, but not too gritty. If the oil is honey-colored, it was just changed. If the dipstick has water droplets on it or oil that is gray or foamy, it could indicate a cracked engine block or blown head gasket—serious problems. Transmission fluid should be pinkish, not brown, and smell like oil, with no "burnt" odor. The dipstick shouldn't leave visible metal particles on the rag, a sign of serious problems. With most cars, you check the automatic-transmission fluid with the engine warmed up and running. On some, the dipstick has two sets of marks for checking when the engine is either cold or warm. Check if the power-steering and brake-fluid levels are within the safe zone. Radiator. Look into the plastic reservoir that's connected by a rubber hose to the radiator. The coolant should be greenish or orange, not a milky or rusty color. Greenish stains on the outside of the radiator are a sign of pinhole leaks. Battery. Some "maintenance free" batteries have a built-in charge indicator. A green indicator usually means the battery is in good shape; yellow or black usually means it is dying or dead. These indicators reveal the condition of just one cell and may not give an accurate reading on how healthy the whole battery is. If the battery has filler caps, wipe off the top with a rag, then carefully pry off or unscrew the caps to look at the liquid electrolyte level. A low level may mean that the battery has been working too hard. A mechanic can check out the charging system and do a "load test" on the battery. UNDER THE VEHICLE If you can find where a car was usually parked, see if that part of the garage floor or driveway is marked from puddles of gasoline, oil, coolant, or transmission fluid. Clear water that drips from under the car on a hot day is probably just water condensed from the air conditioner. Feel for any tailpipe residue. If it's black and greasy, it means the car is burning oil. The tailpipe smudge should be dry and dark gray. Look at the pipes; some rust is normal. Heavy rust might be normal but could mean a new exhaust system might be needed. If the vehicle is high enough to slide under, you may be able to do some basic checks underneath. (If not, make sure you have a mechanic do a thorough professional inspection.) Spread an old blanket on the ground and look under the engine with a flashlight. If you see oil drips, oily leaks, or green or red fluid on the engine or the pavement beneath the car, it's not a good sign. On a front-wheel-drive car, examine the constant-velocity-joint boots behind the front wheels. They are round, black, rubber bellows at the ends of the axle shafts. If the boots are split and leaking grease, assume that the car has bad CV joints—another costly repair. Structural components with kinks and large dents in the floor pan or fuel tank are all indications of a past accident. Welding on the frame suggests a damaged section might have been replaced or cut out to perform repair work. Fresh undercoating may hide recent structural repairs. TAKE THE CAR TO AN INDEPENDENT MECHANIC Before you buy a used vehicle, have it scrutinized by a repair shop that routinely does diagnostic work. A dealer should have no problem lending you the car to have it inspected as long as you leave identification. If a salesperson tells you that an independent inspection is not necessary because the dealership has already done it, insist on having it looked at by a mechanic of your choice. If a private seller is reluctant to let you drive the car to a shop, offer to follow the seller to the shop where the inspection will take place. Make sure the mechanic puts the vehicle on a lift and inspects the undercarriage. A thorough diagnosis should cost around $100, but check the price in advance. Ask for a written report detailing the car's condition, noting any problems found and the cost to repair them. You can then use the report in the negotiation with the seller, if you decide to buy the vehicle. If you don't know of a repair shop with which you feel comfortable, try to get a referral from someone you trust. You could also ask for the name of a good shop at a local auto-parts store. If you can't get referrals, you can find shops in the Yellow Pages or on the Car Care Council's Web site. This is an organization supported by the auto-aftermarket that educates consumers about vehicle care, but there's no performance criteria for shops listed on the site. To check for complaints about any shops you aren't familiar with, research them on the Better Business Bureau's Web site. If you're a member of the American Automobile Association (AAA), use one of its recommended facilities. You can get recommendations through its Web site, too. If you're visiting a shop for the first time, see if it looks clean and well maintained. There should be up-to-date electronic diagnostic equipment next to the service bays. Look for framed certificates or window decals from AAA or the National Institute of Automotive Service Excellence (ASE). AAA-certified garages must meet certain quality standards. ASE grants certificates to mechanics who pass exams in any of eight areas of expertise. The ASE does not certify a shop as a whole, but if 75 percent of the employees are ASE-certified, the shop can carry the seal. You would think that HE would know not toHello everyone!
You would think that this guy would know better but at least his mug shot just looks like he's tired.
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This police booking photo provided by the Palm Springs Police Department shows actor Gary Dourdan who plays Warrick Brown on 'CSI.' 'CSI' co-star Gary Dourdan arrested for drugs.
April 29, 2008, 5:35 PM EST
LOS ANGELES (AP) — "CSI" co-star Gary Dourdan was arrested Monday for possession of narcotics and dangerous drugs, police said. The 41-year-old actor was found asleep in his car by the Palm Springs Police Department, authorities said. An officer saw Dourdan's car parked on the wrong side of the street with the interior light on and someone sleeping in the driver's seat at approximately 5:12 a.m. Monday, according to Palm Springs police Sgt. Mitch Spike. The officer described Dourdan as disoriented and possibly under the influence of alcohol or drugs. The officer arrested Dourdan after locating suspected cocaine, heroin, Ecstacy, miscellaneous prescription drugs and paraphernalia. Dourdan was released on $5,000 bail at 10:30 a.m. Monday. A court date was not immediately scheduled. Dourdan has played crime scene investigator Warrick Brown on CBS' "CSI" since 2000. Several celebrities were in town for the Coachella Valley Music and Arts Festival in nearby Indio, Calif. It was not immediately clear whether Dourdan attended the event. Representatives for Dourdan did not immediately return phone calls Tuesday.
Any comments out there? 25 April Good news for a changeHello everyone!
Extra4/25/2008 2:05 PM ETTax rebates going out earlyReady for some good economic news? Americans will start getting their rebates Monday, four days ahead of schedule. By MSN Money staff Consumer confidence is at a 26-year low. Gas prices have risen yet again. Are we ready for some good news? Here it is: Those tax rebate checks will start showing up in people's bank accounts on Monday, four days early. For those who didn't select direct deposit, the checks will begin hitting the mail on May 9, a full week ahead of schedule. "The money is going to help Americans offset the high prices we're seeing at the gas pump, the grocery store, and also give our economy a boost to help us pull out of this economic slowdown," President Bush said today. Bush said 7.7 million checks will be deposited next week. All told, about 130 million taxpayers will receive rebates. What can you expect? Most individuals will receive $600, married couples who file jointly will get $1,200, and dependent children are good for another $300 each. This is an advance on a tax credit people would have gotten next year. You won't owe taxes on it and, contrary to what many people think, you won't have to pay it back. The IRS says that all checks will be deposited or mailed by July 11 to those who filed tax returns by the April 15 deadline. Whether you plan to save it -- a good idea given the economic downturn -- invest it, spend it to cover rising food and fuel costs, or take advantage of retailers' special rebate offers, consider it a gift from Uncle Sam. Politicians hope the checks, part of a $168 billion economic-stimulus package, will boost consumer spending, the backbone of the U.S. economy. When you'll get your checkThe exact date you receive a stimulus check will depend largely on the last two digits of your Social Security number.
On jointly filed returns, the mailing schedule will be based on the first Social Security number listed, the IRS said. For taxpayers who filed by April 15 and had their tax refunds deposited directly into a bank or other financial account, the IRS will send stimulus payments starting Monday. It estimates direct-deposit payments will be complete by May 9. For taxpayers who filed by April 15 but didn't choose direct deposit, the IRS will mail checks from May 16 through July 11. If you expect a tax refund and chose to directly deposit it into two or three separate accounts, the IRS will send your stimulus check in the mail. (To have your refund sent to more than one account requires you fill out Form 8888. See this IRS page for more information.) If you have a past-due federal or state income-tax bill or some other type of past-due federal debt such as student loans or child support, your stimulus payment likely will be reduced by what you owe. This is the stimulus payment schedule for tax returns processed by April 15, the IRS said:
There may be exceptions, the IRS warned. "A small percentage of tax returns will require additional time to process and to compute a stimulus payment amount. For these returns, stimulus payments may not be issued in accordance with the schedule above, even if the tax return was processed by April 15," the IRS said:
"We have some returns that require a second look, that require us to pull them out of the processing for some reason or another," IRS spokesman Anthony Burke said. "It may not be that there's anything wrong with the return." The "vast majority of people" will receive stimulus payments according to the posted schedule, Burke said, "but it's a big system, a lot of returns go through our pipeline," so some returns may not go exactly according to schedule. 24 April Have you heard the latest?Hello everyone!
Have you heard the latest?
Arby’s owner buying Wendy’s in all-stock deal
COLUMBUS, Ohio - After at least two rejections, billionaire Nelson Peltz has finally succeeded in landing Wendy’s in a $2.3 billion deal that would add the chain known for its square burger and chocolate Frosty dessert to his ownership of Arby’s and its roast beef sandwiches. Now, the investor known for agitating corporations to boost their stock price has to figure out how to make both profitable while the economy slumps and more Americans are saving money on food and fuel by staying home to eat. Atlanta-based Triarc Companies Inc., owned by Peltz, said Thursday it will pay about $2.34 billion in an all-stock deal for the nation’s third-largest hamburger chain started in 1969 by Dave Thomas. Wendy’s had rejected at least two buyout offers from Triarc. Thomas’ daughter Pam Thomas Farber said the family was devastated by the news.
“It’s a very sad day for Wendy’s, and our family. We just didn’t think this would be the outcome,” said Farber, 53. If her father were alive to hear news of the buyout, “he would not be amused,” she said. Triarc will pay about $26.78 per share for the company, which has about 87 million shares outstanding. Wendy’s shares rose 4 percent to $26.39 in trading Thursday. They traded as high as $42.22 last summer, not long after Wendy’s announced the formation of a special committee to boost its stock price. The offer is well below the $37 to $41 per share that Peltz said last summer that he was ready to offer for Wendy’s. Under the terms of the deal, expected to close in the second half of the year, Wendy’s shareholders will receive 4.25 shares of Triarc Class A stock for each share of Wendy’s stock. Triarc said its shareholders will have to approve a charter amendment in which each share of its Class B stock will be converted into Class A stock. Peltz has pushed for change at Wendy’s — including the spinoff of the Tim Hortons coffee-and-doughnut chain and cutting corporate expenses — since 2005 to increase the company’s stock price. His Trian Fund and his allies own 9.8 percent of Wendy’s stock. It’s a similar tactic Peltz has used at other companies where Trian has become a significant investor, such as Cadbury Schweppes PLC and H.J. Heinz Co. Trian also owns shares of Tiffany & Co. and the Cheesecake Factory Inc., according to regulatory filings. The deal comes as Wendy’s struggles with declining profits and weak sales compared with rivals McDonald’s Corp. and Burger King Holdings Inc. Wendy’s said Thursday that its first quarter profit was down 72 percent to $4.1 million, or 5 cents a share, in part because of expenses tied to the work of a special board committee that has been studying ways to boost the company’s stock. Revenue fell to $513 million from $522 million a year ago. Sales at company-owned stores opened at least a year, considered a key indicator of a retailer’s strength, fell 1.6 percent in the quarter and 0.1 percent at U.S. franchise restaurants. Wendy’s also has failed to connect with consumers in several advertising campaigns that have been tried since Thomas’ death in 2002 and it has limited success in adding new products and with its breakfast menu. Thomas, always wearing a white short-sleeved shirt and red tie, became a household face when he began pitching his burgers and fries in television commercials in 1989. “It’s a company that’s sort of lost its way,” said Bob Goldin, executive vice president of Technomic Inc. in Chicago. Still, even with a slumping economy in which other restaurant chains have seen sales decline recently, there is value, analysts say. “We’ve always felt Wendy’s had a decent chance of a turnaround in its business,” said John Owens, an investment analyst with Morningstar, citing its new chicken wrap sandwich and the addition of breakfast at many restaurants. Improved cost controls over food, labor and other expenses should generate $100 million a year in operating profits over time, Triarc said in the statement announcing the deal. Eliminating duplicate corporate functions and streamlining support services are expected to eventually save $60 million, said Triarc, which operates 3,700 Arby’s restaurants. Triarc also said expansions for both brands are planned for the U.S. and overseas and that the company will look at a dual-concept unit in high-cost real estate markets. Triarc said it will also change its name to include the Wendy’s name. Wendy’s deferred comment to Triac, which had nothing further to say right away. Several lunchtime customers at a Wendy’s in Columbus wondered how Thomas would have reacted to the news, were he still alive. “I think he’s probably rolling over in his grave right now,” said John Knape, 36. “But it’s business, and that’s what you need to do to survive, right?” The deal caps two chaotic years for Wendy’s in which it has sold or spun off operations, slashed its corporate staff and had its wholesome image tarnished by a woman who falsely claimed she found part of a finger in her chili. Farber said the family didn’t think much of Peltz’ and Triarc’s tactics. “They came after them (Wendy’s) and came after them and came after them. They spun Tim Hortons off, they did this, they did that. They did everything they asked but it wasn’t enough.” Thomas opened his first restaurant in a former steakhouse on a cold, snowy Saturday in downtown Columbus on Nov. 15, 1969. He named the chain after his 8-year-old daughter Melinda Lou — nicknamed Wendy by her siblings. Wendy’s, based in suburban Dublin, operates about 6,600 restaurants in the United States and abroad. It trails McDonald’s and Burger King Holdings Inc. in the burger business.
From another website is the background story.
Dave Thomas was born on July 2, 1932 in Atlantic City, New Jersey. When he was six weeks old, he was adopted by a Michigan couple named Rex and Auleva Thomas. The adoption should have meant that young Dave had a permanent home and a normal family life. However, when he was just five years old, Auleva became ill with rheumatic fever and she passed away. From that time on, Dave Thomas moved around the country with his adopted father as the elder man searched for work.
What a waste of timeHello everyone!
For the people who might care, here is a "story" that I found about another famous for being famous Paris Hilton. Any comments out there?
By SANDY COHEN - AP Entertainment Writer
LOS ANGELES(AP) More than 85,000 people want to be Paris Hilton's best friend.
The 27-year-old is using the Internet to cast potential friends for her new reality show, "Paris Hilton's My New BFF." The MTV series, which begins production next month, will follow 20 contestants as they live together and vie for the chance to be Hilton's permanent plus-one.
Thousands of candidates have posted profiles and videos on ParisBFF.com in hopes of winning a spot on the show. Visitors to the site can vote for their favorites, and the top vote-getters will be added to the cast, producers said.
The site has already collected more than 6 million page views since it went live five weeks ago. And the heiress herself is among those checking out the daily posts.
Hilton, who also serves as the show's executive producer, took time out after an MTV business meeting to talk with The Associated Press about her public quest for friendship.
AP: Why take your search for a new best friend to the reality-TV world?
Hilton: Well I did "The Simple Life" for five seasons. I had a great time. I love reality TV. It's my favorite to watch. When I was approached with this idea I just thought it would be so much fun, being a producer on the show as well, having boys and girls move into a house all vying to be my best friend, I just thought it'd be fun and I'd also like to meet some new friends.
AP: Do you think you can find a real, lasting friendship this way? Do you have a preference of male or female?
Hilton: I just want to see the contestants and see how they are. I don't care if it's a boy or a girl, just as long as its someone I can trust, someone I can have fun with and just someone who's going to be able to like handle all the other things that are going to come with being my best friend.
AP: Like what?
Hilton: Just being in the media, just someone who's not going to care about that, just someone who cares about me.
AP: What are some of the qualities you're looking for in a new best friend?
Hilton: Just someone who's fun, someone who I can trust and just someone who, I don't know, just someone to get along with that is not going to screw me over. Just someone to have a great time with.
AP: You recently found a new best friend in Benji Madden. What are some of the challenges in finding friends you click with?
Hilton: It is hard meeting new people. Most of my friends I've had my entire life, like obviously my sister and Nicole Richie have been with me forever. So when I meet new people, I'm always a little wary of the reason they may want to become my friend. I can usually just tell by when we're out in public and there's paparazzi around, I see, you know, who gets a little bit too excited or whatever. I can tell how those people are.
AP: Because it's a show, it's possible that some contestants might be more interested in being on TV than being your best friend. How will you determine people's sincerity? Hilton: We're at MTV right now and just going over all the challenges and different things we're going to be putting the contestants through. I can't really tell because they're all top secret.
AP: How has this experience been different from "The Simple Life" and your feature-film work?
Hilton: This is like completely different. "The Simple Life" was more fish-out-of-water, Nicole and I just doing things we've never done. AP: What kinds of things appeal to you when you're looking at the videos on ParisBFF.com?
Hilton: Just people who are fun, people who I know are going to be great on TV, people who have fun personalities, they're not shy, the people who tell their deepest secrets, people who are open to being honest and having a great time. That's what my show's about.
AP: Talk about your role as executive producer.
Hilton: Actually I was a producer of "The Simple Life" as well. Well, just being in control of everything and making all the decisions and just really being on top of everything, coming up with ideas. The casting process, with "The Simple Life" I didn't do all that, so this has been a lot of work but a lot of fun as well.
AP: What else is going on with you?
Hilton: I've just been traveling for a while and just launched my clothing line and my shoe line. I'm just getting ready for my movie _ "Repo! The Genetic Opera" is coming out soon. So I'm just getting ready for that.
AP: With all your projects, do you still have time for fun?
Hilton: Not as much as I used to when I was younger. But I'm always traveling. I have a lot of businesses I run. Everything is so successful so it feels really great and I'd rather be working than doing anything else. 22 April That's one idea that might workHello everyone!
This is one way to maybe move your house in this depressed real estate market. Would you buy a ticket?
WHITE ROCK— For $100 and a 500-word essay, you get a one-in-2,500 chance to win a $250,000 house in this suburb of Los Alamos. And it's not an April Fools' Day joke. By Monday afternoon, Tiffany Lovell, 26, had received 500 hits at the site she posted just three days before, winahome.blogspot.com. "Someone was sending me a question while I was putting the blog together," said Lovell, a stay-at-home mom of Emma, 9 months old, and wife to Todd, also 26, who works for a Los Alamos National Laboratory contractor. "There are houses here that have been on the market over two years," said Tiffany. "We talked to a Realtor and she advised us, 'If you guys can keep the house at all and build up equity, that would be your best option.' '' The winning buyer would get a great deal— contingent on the Lovells getting at least a quarter of a million bucks. As the site says, "The entry fee ($100) will be refunded if we do not have 2,500 entries by the June 20th deadline." So, do the math: That amounts to $250,000, which Tiffany says would cover the appraisal figure for the 1,200-square-foot, three-bedroom/one-bathroom house, the closing costs, an updated appraisal and a carpet allowance. If they get more than 2,500 entries ... well that's called extra profit. Greg Saunders, deputy executive director of the New Mexico Gaming Control Board, said Monday evening he couldn't comment on the legality of the win-a-home contest based on a reporter's description. He agreed to check out the contest site today. The Lovells are renovating the bathroom and pulling up the apricot tree whose roots are pulling up the fence between their house and the neighbor's. It isn't that the Lovells are unhappy with their house or even planning a move. "But we're young," said Tiffany. "We have friends where the husband got a new job in another town, and he's been gone for almost a year. The wife and two kids are still here because they couldn't sell their house." And Tiffany is determined to keep her threesome together, whether it's making her family more mobile by selling their house early or finding a way to make her living at home on her scrapbooking Web site. "We had seen something similar, a little mountain home in Colorado someone was trying to sell with an essay contest, so we thought we'd try this," she said. Or at least Tiffany thought she'd try it. "I came home one day and it was just sort of done," said Todd. "My parents are like, 'What are you guys doing?' '' But Tiffany is trying to deal with any glitches as they arise. "One person wrote and wanted to know what the taxes were going to be, so I put in a call to the accountant," she said. "And somebody wrote today and wanted to know if the essay was going to be judged on content or grammar. It's content." The essay can be on any subject. A panel of 10 Los Alamos-area people will judge the contest. Family members of the judges are excluded from entering. "There's an insurance agent, a CFO of a bank, someone at the lab," she said, of the judges. So far, no essays have been received, and no money. But with the amount of Web traffic the site is bringing, Tiffany was heading to the post office Monday afternoon to get a post office box. "I didn't think I would get this kind of feedback so fast," she said. So far, no essays have been received, and no money. But with the amount of Web traffic the site is bringing, Tiffany was heading to the post office Monday afternoon to get a post office box. "I didn't think I would get this kind of feedback so fast," she said. House Features:
![]() About CSI creatorHello everyone!
`CSI' creator Anthony E. Zuiker to write his memoirs
April 21, 2008, 12:29 PM EST
The creator and executive producer of CBS' "CSI" franchise is planning to write his memoirs. Anthony E. Zuiker has signed a deal with Collins, an imprint of HarperCollins Publishers, the company announced Monday. The book is set for release in the fall of 2009. In the book, tentatively titled "Mr. CSI," Zuiker discusses his gangster father, and the decisions he made during his journey from Las Vegas bellhop to Hollywood mogul, Collins said. "Most shocking is Zuiker's recollection of his father's suicide in Las Vegas, which happened the night he was on stage at the People's Choice Awards collecting his fourth statue for `CSI,'" the publisher said. "In a scene that could have been pulled from the show, Zuiker flew right to the scene and attempted to piece together his father's last hours." The top-rated forensics drama "CSI: Crime Scene Investigation," starring William Petersen, debuted on CBS in 2000, followed by the spin-offs "CSI: Miami" and "CSI: NY." "My life has certainly been one of extremes," Zuiker said in a statement. "But they show that what may seem like bad luck or an accident of good fortune are in reality due to basic rules all of us can follow when making the decisions that affect our life and work." You have got to be kidding me!Hello everyone!
I was surfing the 'net and found this story from GA that made me shake my head. Any comments out there?
Court throws out lawsuit challenging NBC's 'Deal or No Deal'
April 21, 2008, 1:23 PM EST
Georgia's highest court on Monday threw out a lawsuit contending that NBC's "Deal or No Deal" violated state anti-gambling laws when it invited viewers to take part in a game via text message. The Georgia Supreme Court ruled unanimously against Michael and Michele Hardin, who wanted NBC to repay them and other state residents for the cost of sending 99-cent text messages in hopes of winning a prize on the hit show's "Lucky Case Game." The game challenged at-home viewers to guess which of six on-screen gold briefcases was the lucky case. The couple's lawyer, Jerry Buchanan, called the game an illegal gambling operation and said state law allowed residents to retrieve money because "gambling contracts are void." NBC attorneys, however, said the game was a promotional tool and not a lottery. In is ruling Monday, the court said the text messages cannot be classified as a bet or a wager, and the state law "offers no avenue of recovery to plaintiffs." The suit did not indicate how much the Hardins or other Georgians might have spent on the game. Calls to Buchanan and Joe Loveland, an attorney representing NBC, were not immediately returned. The NBC show, hosted by Howie Mandel assisted by a flock of sexy models, gives the studio contestants a shot at up to $1 million, with dollar amounts hidden in 26 sealed briefcases. NBC halted the at-home segment of the game — which typically offered a top prize of $10,000 — since the lawsuit, which was also the target of at least one court challenge in California. It is described on the show's Web site as "taking a short break." NBC is majority owned by General Electric Co. 21 April Something smells bad in UtahHello everyone!
I was surfing the 'net and found a pretty gross story in the Salt Lake City area that happened last month. Here it is complete with pictures of the idiots ~
SANDY - Three juveniles who were videotaped putting a bag of human feces in a microwave at a Salt Lake area convenience store were arrested on Thursday, police said.
On Mar. 23, three teenage boys entered a 7-11 convenience store located near 2100 East and 9400 South. After milling around the store for a few moments, police said they went over to the microwave and put a bag of human feces inside -- and then set the timer for ten minutes before leaving the store. A few minutes later, the microwave blew up and sent the excrement and a putrid stench around the store. The appliance was destroyed and the entire store had to be fumigated for a long period of time -- resulting in lost profits, officials said. Overall, about $3,500 in damages occurred. Here is the update of this weird story ~
Police say they have arrested three teens they believe were involved in the incident.
--- SANDY, Utah (ABC 4 News) — Police in Sandy are looking for three men who were involved in cooking human feces in a convenience store microwave oven. Police say one of the men placed a one gallon plastic baggie with human feces inside of it inside the oven and set the timer for ten minutes. They say it happened on March 23rd at approximately 10:45 p.m. at the 7-11 at 2175 East 9400 South. The men left the area, and after the bag exploded, it ruined the microwave costing approximately $3500.00 in damage. The store had to be aired out for a long period of time, causing lost profits. Police released surveillance photos of the crime in hopes the suspects can be identified. This is so wrong!Hello everyone!
I found this story about a new book that was written for young children. This will upset nearly all of you but I would love to hear your comments out there about this doctor's book.
Kids' Book About Mommy's Plastic Surgery
A Florida plastic surgeon has written the first known picture book aimed at 4-7 year-olds that seeks to reassure them about mom going under the knife. April 17, 2008
(Reuters) - Mom's getting a tummy tuck and a new nose. But how does she tell her kids? A Florida plastic surgeon has written the first known picture book aimed at 4-7 year-olds that seeks to reassure them about mom going under the knife. But the book, "My Beautiful Mommy", has stirred up a hornet's nest among feminists and even some cosmetic surgeons who feel it may undermine the self-esteem of the very young. Dr Michael Salzhauer, a father of four, said he wrote the book because many of his patients are having "mommy makeovers" to fix saggy breasts and slack tummies a few years after childbirth and were concerned about what to tell their kids. "It sounds like a joke but there really is a need to address this issue," Salzhauer told Reuters. "It is for the mom who has already booked her plastic surgery and now has to tell her kids, why she is going to be in bed, why daddy is picking the kids up from school and all those other issues." "Hundreds of thousands of women have this operation in the United States. This is for a specific consumer at a specific time in their life that is going to turn their household upside down for a couple of weeks." According to the American Society of Plastic Surgeons, 1.8 million plastic surgery procedures were performed in the United States in 2007 -- most of them breast augmentations and liposuction. Salzhauer said feedback to the book from his own patients has been very positive. But some of the explanations from the attractive, cartoon-style mom in the book have sparked a furious online debate. "As I got older, my body stretched and I couldn't fit into my clothes anymore. Dr Michael is going to help fix that and make me feel better," the mother tells her daughter. Her nose surgery, she explains, will make her look "not just different, my dear -- prettier!". Jessica Valenti, executive editor of the Web site www.feministing.com, said she did not wish to sit in judgment of those who get plastic surgery. "But do we really have to teach our kids that we need it to 'feel better' and be 'beautiful'? Ugh," Valenti wrote. Dr Stephen Greenberg, a New York cosmetic surgeon and author of "A Little Nip, A Little Tuck", said elementary school age children should not be exposed to plastic surgery. "Let them feel that self esteem comes from within and not necessarily related to how somebody looks," Greenberg said. Salzhauer said he was taken aback by the criticism -- most of it from people who have not read the entire book. "They are judging the book by its cover, which is kind of ironic. "This book was written with the best of intentions. It wasn't trying to corrupt society. It is not glamorizing plastic surgery. It is not intended to be a best seller that children read with their parents before they go to sleep," he said.
19 April Poor Sandra BullockHello everyone!
GLOUCESTER, Mass.(AP) Sandra Bullock and her husband were unhurt after a head-on crash with a drunken driver, police said Saturday.
The actress and her husband, Jesse James of TV's "Monster Garage," were being driven in a sport-utility vehicle Friday night when a station wagon crossed the center line and hit them, said Gloucester police Lt. Jerry Cook.
Both vehicles were totaled, but no one was hurt. The vehicles were traveling 15 to 20 mph, Cook said. The other car was driven by Lucille Gatchell, who registered a blood-alcohol level of 0.20 percent, more than twice the legal limit of 0.08 percent, Cook said.
She was held by Gloucester police overnight and released Saturday on personal recognizance. She is to be arraigned Tuesday in Gloucester District Court.
Gatchell did not immediately return a call seeking comment Saturday. Calls to representatives for Bullock were not immediately returned.
Bullock, 43, was "gracious" and concerned about whether Gatchell was OK, Cook said.
The actress, who starred in such films as "Speed" and "Miss Congeniality," is in Massachusetts filming the romantic comedy "The Proposal."
From another newspaper in the area of the accident
Police: Londonderry man, 'Crash' star hit by drunken driver By Crystal Bozek
GLOUCESTER, Mass. — Sandra Bullock, star of movies including "Crash" and "Speed," had a real-life scare Friday night when she and her husband were hit by an alleged drunken driver, police said. They were not hurt when the sports utility vehicle they were riding in was hit head-on while traveling on East Main Street.
Bullock is on Cape Ann filming the Disney romantic comedy "The Proposal" with Ryan Reynolds.
The actress and her husband, Jesse James of "Monster Garage," were being driven to their hotel by Mark Hussey, 54, of Londonderry, N.H., when a station wagon crossed the center line and crashed into them, said Gloucester police Sgt. Chris Cook.
"It was actually a really minor accident. They both declined medical attention," Cook said. "We've gotten 5 million calls on this. ... I just keep saying it's really minor."
Police arrested the other driver, Lucille P. Gatchell, 64, of 19 Starknaught Heights, Gloucester, and charged her with driving under the influence of alcohol and failure to stay in marked lanes, according to the police report.
Gatchell, who was also unhurt, registered a blood-alcohol level of 0.20 percent, more than twice the legal limit of 0.08 percent, Cook said. She allegedly told police she had consumed a couple glasses of wine.
Officer Kevin Mackey, who made the arrest, said Gatchell did not realize whom she had hit until he advised her, and she then began giggling and laughing. At one point she fell and had to be caught by Mackey, reports said.
She was released on personal recognizance yesterday and will be arraigned Tuesday in Gloucester District Court. Gatchell did not return several phone calls for comment Saturday night.
Both vehicles were towed from the scene.
Police responded to the accident at about 9:50 p.m. Hussey told officers he was driving down the road at 15 to 20 miles per hour at the time of the accident and tried to avoid the veering Subaru. He could not be reached for comment last night.
Cook described Hussey's driving as "perfectly fine" and said the man was "distraught" afterward.
Police said Bullock and James were hugging each other as they approached the scene. The couple were driven away soon after by the star's security detail.
"Mrs. Bullock was very personable and was concerned for (Gatchell's) well-being," Mackey said.
Cook said the officers described Bullock, 43, as being very nice.
"I guess that's part of her appeal. She always comes off as being very sweet in her movies, and it must come naturally," Cook said. "She was concerned about this lady even though it was this lady who caused the accident."
Bullock has starred in such films as "The Lake House," "Miss Congeniality" and "While You Were Sleeping."
She had been filming in Rockport, where the film company has transformed parts of the seaside town into the Alaskan town of Sitka.
"The Proposal" is set in the Alaskan seaport village and tells the story of a high-powered publishing executive (Bullock) with an expired visa who is trying to avoid deportation to Canada by convincing her assistant (Reynolds) to marry her.
After wrapping up in Rockport, the production crew will move on to locations in Gloucester and Manchester later this month. It's set to be released in 2009. Now this is weird!Hello everyone!
I was surfing the 'net before I need to go to work and found this bizarre story that happens to be true. Some of the pictures may upset a few people so be aware okay?
Tree man 'who grew roots' hopes to marry after 4lb of warts removedBy Adam Lusher, Marianne Kearney and Aji Ramyakim Last Updated: 3:27am BST 18/04/2008
When blogs go badHello everyone!
I still don't know where you guys are ~ I still need to hear your thoughts about my adult since there's a meeting about him in two days at his place of work. In the meantime, I found a NY Times article about blogging and when it goes bad, at least for the other side. Any thoughts out there?
Please send me your thoughts about my adult, I really need it!
April 18, 2008
When the Ex Blogs, the Dirtiest Laundry Is AiredThis week, the potential of the Internet to expose and disgrace when marriages fall apart came into stark relief as Tricia Walsh Smith, who is being divorced by Philip Smith, a theater executive, put a video on YouTube announcing that they never had sex, and yet she found him hoarding Viagra, pornography and condoms. Not surprisingly, Mr. Smith’s lawyer, David Aronson, called the video “appalling” and said: “Mr. Smith is a very private person. This is obviously embarrassing.” But in an era when more than one in 10 adult Internet users in the United States have blogs, according to the Pew Internet and American Life Project, many people are using the Web to tell their side of a marital saga. Despite the legal end of a marriage, the confessions can stretch toward eternity in a steady stream of enraged or despondent postings. In separation, of course, one person’s truth can be another’s lie. Often the postings are furtive. But even when the ex-spouse is well aware that he or she is starring in a blog and sues to stop it, recent rulings in New York and Vermont have showed the courts reluctant to intervene. For the blogger, the writing can be therapeutic. Until the morning her husband, David Sals, told her he “was done” with their marriage, Jennifer Neal had portrayed him so lovingly on her blog that he was called DearSweetDave. By the afternoon of that October day last year, Ms. Neal had shared what she portrayed as his perfidy with the 55,000 regular readers she says visit NakedJencom. Soon after, readers came to know him by a far less flattering name, and as the guy whose insensitivity made Jen so sick that she was throwing up every day and so poor that she lost her house in Santa Cruz, Calif. And when a despairing Jen discovered in February that her ex-husband had put his information up on Match.com, an Internet dating service, she linked to it from her blog, giving her readers a chance to share their thoughts. Mr. Sals protested, but Ms. Neal held firm: “If he wants to tell his side of the story, he should get his own blog.” Mr. Sals said that he had stopped reading her blog but that his family still sometimes looked at it and got upset. “I’ve never tried to make her stop, but I’ve definitely had to adjust to giving up my privacy,” he said. It is impossible to say just how many people are blogging about divorce, but the percentage of Internet users with personal blogs has quadrupled in five years, according to Pew. Mary Madden, a senior researcher with the Pew Project who specializes in online relationships, said that in emotionally charged times, some people go to the Web. “It is a blank slate to unload all the frustrations and emotions of a personal crisis,” Ms. Madden said. There will certainly be consequences down the line of all this sharing. “The long-term impact of the persistent information on line has not been fully felt,” Ms. Madden said. “People tend to think that they are blogging for a small group of friends or that they are anonymous,” she said. But that is not really the case, she said, because “all it takes is one friend posting a link to your blog to out you.” Laurie, a Manhattan mother, started podcasting DivorcingDaze.com during her divorce in 2006. Each week Laurie and a divorced friend have a glass of wine and tape their discussions of the day’s topics — spas, their boyfriends, Eliot Spitzer — and then post to the web. Laurie never told her ex-husband she was doing the programs because they were meant as advice to others and not as retribution, she said. She does not use her last name or her ex-husband’s in her talks and asked that both names be withheld for this article. Still, Laurie maintains no pretense of impartiality. The 10,000 monthly listeners she says download DivorcingDaze episodes have heard Laurie say that she discovered her ex-husband was having an affair with his boss from e-mail on his BlackBerry, and that he had told their older daughter he wasn’t cheating because the marriage, in his mind, was already over “I am 100 percent aware that if he told his version of the marriage, it would be completely different,” Laurie said. So different in fact, that when her husband did find out about the podcasts last year, he sued her. He argued that they included statements that were “obnoxious, derogatory or offensive” and that they violated the terms of the divorce settlement that she not “harass” or “malign” him. In a decision only weeks ago, however, a justice of the Supreme Court of the State of New York said his complaints were not grounds for blocking the podcast. While Laurie’s statements may be “ill-advised and do not promote co-parenting,” the court wrote, they were covered by the First Amendment. Obviously, divorce lawyers are taking note. Deborah Lans of Cohen Lans, a Manhattan law firm with a thriving matrimonial practice, said, “The last thing you want to see is angry people making uncontrolled statements.” Ms. Lans said her divorce agreements included a confidentiality provision that forbade either party to publish even fictionalized accounts of the marriage, but not every lawyer insists on that. The judge in Laurie’s case explicitly noted that her agreement did not have such a provision. Earlier this year, a court in Vermont did tell William Krasnansky to take down his lightly disguised account of his divorce, in which he described his ex-wife in an unflattering light and blamed her for forcing him to sell their home at “a ruinous loss.” Mr. Krasnanksy’s ex-wife had complained that it was “defamatory.” But weeks later, after a firestorm of criticism, the court reversed itself and gave him the right to continue to publish. For some ex-spouses, revenge is not the point. Writing about divorce can be good for readership. “The bloggers who are doing the best are those who are injecting their personal lives,” said Penelope Trunk, the author of the Brazen Careerist blog, who has written frequently in the past year about the collapse of her 15-year marriage. Ms. Trunk wrote about going to what she thought was a first session with a new marriage counselor chosen by her husband only to discover it was a divorce lawyer’s office. That was one of her most popular posts. More painfully, she has written about the problems of a son who has Asperger’s syndrome and said that both she and her husband believed the challenges of raising him helped cause their divorce. But this kind of brutal honesty is not a good idea for children, especially since most harbor feelings of guilt about their parents’ divorce anyway, said Irene Goldenberg, a professor emeritus of psychiatry at the University of California, Los Angeles. “It is not good for children to get personal information in that way,” Dr. Goldenberg said. “And people have to consider doing things in the heat of the moment. The way they feel now will not be how they feel in two years, and there is no way it can be retrieved.” Ms. Trunk disagrees. “It is a generational issue,” she said. “We think it will be a big deal, but it won’t be to them. By the time they are old enough to read it, they will have spent their entire life online. It will be like, ‘Oh yeah, I expected that.’ ” 18 April Pound Puppy did good!Hello everyone!
I still don't know where everyone has gone but wanted to share something really good that Pound Puppy did this morning.
We didn't go to bed until nearly 1AM this morning (I didn't get home from work until 11:30PM) so I "slept in" until 7:30AM and then had to let her out to go potty since she sleeps in our bedroom in her kennel. I wanted to take a quick cat nap since today I get paid for ten hours but since I get two lunch periods today, (I will see a total of three adults today and that's just the way it goes sometimes) I will actually be working twelve hours.
I was going back into the house and all of a sudden I heard Pound Puppy barking in her high pitched bark similar to when R's wall was sprayed with graffiti awhile back. I looked out of the kitchen window and saw her "going nuts" like something was wrong outside of the block wall out of my sight when I saw it. A white poodle who looked really tired was coaxed by Pound Puppy to come over to "her gate" which you can see in our photo album. I opened the garage door, grabbing Pound Puppy's leash. While Pound Puppy kept the poodle busy, I was able to put the leash on it and look for a tag.
Thank goodness the owner had not only the rabies tag (which was current) but had his name and phone number on another tag. I called the number and told him that I had his dog. He was near tears and said that he had been looking for him since last night and finally went to bed himself at 2:30AM and was just getting ready to look again before checking the pound when I called.
The poodle was nearly a mile away from home and I told the man that I would meet him at the church where we have our neighborhood watch meetings at so it would be sort of half way for both of us. I left Pound Puppy at home since I wasn't sure if the man had another dog and we walked down to the church. A man in his early 70's drove up in his Caddy and nearly ran for his dog.
I told him how our dog alerted me that his dog was outside of our gate and how she "kept him busy" so I could put on the leash. He wanted to give us some money and I of course, refused. I did accept a warm handshake though. He said that someone left the front gate open a bit and that's how he got out. He doesn't know how his dog made it so far away without getting hit by a car but promised to be more careful so that it won't happen again.
The dog literally leaped into the car and started licking "Daddy's" face which was the only reward that I really wanted.
Have a great day and if you have a dog, give him/her a kiss for Pound Puppy!
16 April I need your help pleaseHello everyone!
I need your help guys ~ one of "my adults" is not acting in a responsible manner. Now as you know, I need to keep this generic but this is 100% true. This entry is a little long but I really need your help and want to give you some history first okay?
This adult is 25 years old but with his disability, his mental age is about 12 years old and is "girl crazy" which is the problem.
He has worked for his employer for about a year and a half and started having major problems nearly three months ago. His employer contacted my employer since he was on "maintain" where he only gets a job coach about fifteen hours a month agreed to go back to having a job coach for 100% of his shifts until he can turn it around or his employer was going to fire him. I had an entry about him where my boss, who has nicknamed me "the fixer" since I have turned around a couple other adults back into the good employee that they once were, sent me "to fix him" back to what he was when he first started a year and a half ago.
This guy was so good that his employer who was at first reluctant to hire a mentally challenged adult, was so happy with his performance that he wanted to hire "ten more if they are like A." which I took as a huge compliment since I was his first job coach.
Go backwards to three months ago and the beginning of my problem ~
There is an associate (now former associate) who is old enough to be his mother and when you first meet her, want to shake your head with her physical look at least. She has dyed blonde hair over most of her head but the bottom three inches of her hair is bright pink, wears tight clothes trying to look 20 when her true age is nearly 40. "My adult" is hispanic and when he wants to keep "something secret from his job coach" he will speak Spanish. The associates know that if it's something to do with business I need to know what he said but if it's personal, it can stay that way. This former associate, D. knows how to speak Spanish and they would flirt with each other when he happened to be in her work area. At first it was kind of cute since he did that with other associates, but after a while, it got to be longer times that he would linger in her work area and that's when the Spanish started. I would redirect (our word for getting the adult to do something else that they need to do) him back to work and they would leave. That was working out so I was sent to another adult.
Now present time two weeks ago ~
I have been his full-time job coach for over a month now and he was getting better at staying on track most of the time. Then the rumors started that he and D. were seeing each other again. We don't have to take breaks and/or lunchs with "our adults" since it is a break period but there are times that I do sit in the same break room although at different sides of the room and eat my lunch quietly and do my paperwork. But there are times that I can hear conversations that my ears perk up when I hear things coming out of his mouth since he won't talk to me. I don't care what you do in your personal life unless it sounds like someone is taking advantage of you and you don't notice the obvious signs.
Here's my problem ~
On March 28th, we were on the last break of the day and I was at one end of the break room doing my paperwork and A. was at the other end drinking a soda talking to a male associate. A's cell phone went off and after about a minute, he stood up and said, "Okay, I will be right out." He told the guy he was talking to that he was going to finish his break outside talking to a friend. I looked at my watch and saw that we still had eight minutes of break and I had five minutes left of paperwork to finish. After five minutes, I then got up and went outside to look for A. Maybe a minute later, a small brown car moved quickly from my left and stopped suddenly right in front of the entrance to the workplace. Right in the passenger seat was A. and driving this beat up old car was D. and a small boy about five was in the back seat. A. looked really embarrassed since two other male associates walked up and started teasing him about being in a car with her. A. got out of the car and D. motioned for me to come over. She wasn't sure that I would remember her and had something to say. She said something like they were just friends and that she was still mad with the employer claiming that while she was out on leave, the employer fired her. A. had already gone back inside the establishment to work so I told D. that I had to go but it was nice to see her. (Remember the saying about keeping your friends close but your enemies closer?) For the next hour, the place was abuzz with news (and more rumors) about A. and D. some of which got back to me since the majority of his co-workers really care for A. and don't want him hurt. The biggest "news" that was told to me directly by one of his supervisors was that D. was rumored to be a "crackhead" and wasn't it a coincidence that D. stopped by when her rent was due? I have worried that something like that would happen knowing his disability and in fact, did see something that bothered me enough to report it to his case manager. When D. still worked for the company and A. was on his last break, again we were in the break room on different sides of this huge table with me doing paperwork and he was talking to an associate. D. came in and "mentioned" how she was having trouble cashing a check and "didn't even have money to buy a soda." So of course because they are "friends" he got up and bought her a soda. The other associate and I exchanged a look but didn't say anything. After she left, the other associate asked him what was going on. Of course, A. said nothing was going on except he wanted to buy her a soda. I reported what I heard to my boss and A's case manager but nothing else could be done since he's an adult but this was added to his case notes for history if nothing else.
On April 5th, the establishment was having a sidewalk sale and when I went outside for a break, the HR manager who was outside stopped me. This man of course would not spread idol gossip but he heard something from a reliable employee who was off duty that day and felt that me/my company needed to know. A. had gotten paid the day before (his check isn't direct deposited) and this reliable employee told the HR manager that she felt that A. had turned over his entire paycheck (they get paid every two weeks) to D. and told him hoping that he would see me before she did. I made another phone call to my boss and his case manager. Since I was speaking to the HR manager, I asked him if he was legally allowed to tell me if D. was fired as she claimed. He said that she quit her job and was amazed that she is now telling another story to everyone else and I thanked him for clearing that up.
Then the reliable employee came back to work a few days ago and told me more that she was too nervous to tell the HR manager. She believes she knows how D. got A. hooked and told me in private. I will clean up what she said but know that it's disturbing in more than one way so be warned.
As you know, she's old enough to be his mother and I already told you what she looks like with the hair but I didn't tell you that even though she's nearly 40 and trying to look 20 she really looks closer to 50. I believe the rumor that she is doing some kind of drugs and/or is an alcoholic. You know the look that I'm talking about I'm sure. But A. thinks she's pretty, go figure. Anyway, the thing that D. probably hooked A. is well known to about a dozen (if not more) associates because she offered to show anyone male or female who wanted to see it, her new piercing "down there" and offered the reliable employee a look right there in the company bathroom. She also had parties at her house and surrounds herself with younger guys who will "buy into" her world. And she's divorced with four kids with god knows how many fathers. I am so disgusted that A. is dazzled with her bull and obvious ways to get anything she can get out of him but I cannot say anything.
Yesterday A. changed his start time from 3PM-11PM to 9AM-4PM which meant I didn't get a lot of sleep since we worked until 11PM the day before. He told his supervisor that he need to switch his shift since he had a doctor's appointment. At the end of his shift yesterday, he started telling the male associates that he had a date with his girlfriend to go to the movies. They asked in surprise, what girlfriend since it's well known A. doesn't have a girlfriend. What's her name? They were shocked to hear that idiot, D's name brought up. Everyone here have told A. repeatly that D. isn't a real friend, real friends don't ask you for money. A keeps insisting that she is nice, pretty and his girlfriend and since he doesn't drive, will be picking him up to go to the movies. I saw him leave work and get into a car with a woman driving but she parked so far away, that I couldn't see her face clearly but I know it was her.
What else can be done to get through to him or is it a lost cause?
15 April Wal-Mart newsHello everyone!
Where is everyone? Anyhow, I found a story about Wal-Mart that you might find interesting.
Wal-Mart to log guns sold, then used in crimesLargest seller of firearms will also videotape all transactions
11 April The other side of the storyHello everyone!
Before heading off to bed I found a story from the mother of the murdered Marine.
Mother's mission clear in aftermath of Marine's death
By Margo Rutledge Kissell Staff Writer Saturday, April 12, 2008 Seven large boxes filled with Maria Lauterbach's personal belongings arrived back in Vandalia on Monday. For the 20-year-old slain Marine lance corporal's family, touching all of her things — the prized softball glove, her soccer cleats, her favorite music CDs and the present she had bought her mother for Christmas — brought the reality of Maria's death home. "It just sort of hits you, the finality of the whole thing," Mary Lauterbach said Friday, April 11. The belongings had been shipped to Wright-Patterson Air Force Base, where Maria's father, Victor Lauterbach, is an Air Force Reserve master sergeant in the 87th Aerial Port Squadron. Tucked inside one of the boxes was the gift the Butler High School graduate had gotten for her mother — the first season of her favorite TV show, "The Office." She planned to give it to her during Mary Lauterbach's planned visit on Dec. 21. Lauterbach disappeared on Dec. 14, hours after talking to her mother on the phone. Her body was found buried in the backyard of fellow Marine, Cpl. Cesar Armando Laurean, on Jan. 11. By then, Laurean had vanished and authorities suspected he fled to Mexico. He was captured Thursday. Lauterbach's family had already planned to attend today's Fitness Challenge at Fairborn High School in which Maria will be honored. The event starts at 1 p.m. It was at that Fitness Challenge, when Maria was a 10-year-old fourth-grader, that she had a shining moment on the track. Though the St. Christopher student was up against bigger, more experienced track runners in the final heat of the 400-yard dash, she managed to win "just by a hair. She gave it every ounce." Her mother sees it as an example of her daughter's no-quit attitude. "It parallels the whole rape accusation because, subtly or overtly, over all those months she did have a lot of pressure put on her to drop her charges, but she wouldn't do it," she said of her pregnant daughter. Mary Lauterbach said her daughter told her the baby was a boy she planned to name Gabriel Joseph. An autopsy determined Lauterbach likely died of blunt force trauma to the head. The report also found that she had a superficial incision on the left side of her neck that may have come after death. In a note to his wife, Laurean claimed Lauterbach slit her own throat and that he buried her body. It remains unclear whether Laurean was the father of her unborn baby. Laurean denied the rape allegation. Mary Lauterbach, who has been critical of the way the Marine Corps responded after her daughter reported the rape, said she wants to move on with the process "of seeing if there are ways the Marines can improve their handling of rape accusations to protect their young military personnel in the future." U.S. Rep. Mike Turner, R-Centerville posed 29 questions to the Marines about whether they'd adequately protected the young woman. Mary Lauterbach said it has been a tremendous help having the congressman involved. "I think Congress is the one institution the military responds well to and they listen to. That really is the primary avenue for affecting change." Mary Lauterbach said she'll continue to speak out in hope of creating a better system to help other victims of sexual assault. "I have every intention of that being my long-term life mission," she said. I still don't understand but..Hello everyone!
I just got home from work and found an update to the story about the Marine. Where is everyone?
Fugitive Marine
Nabbed in Mexico By TRACI CARL - Associated Press Writer
MORELIA, Mexico(AP)
A Marine suspected of killing a pregnant colleague told police he slept in fields and survived by eating fruit that he found during a three-month manhunt that ended with his arrest in western Mexico, authorities said.
Alexandre Meneghini
A view of a three-room wood cabin, where U.S. Marine Cpl. Cesar Laurean supposedly lived, near the town of San Juan de la Vina, Mexico, Friday, April 11, 2008. Laurean, who was wanted in the brutal slaying of a pregnant colleague who had accused him of rape, was arrested Thursday night by Mexican police after a three-month international manhunt, authorities said.
Working with FBI agents, police in the small town of Tacambaro arrested Cpl. Cesar Laurean on Thursday. He is charged with first-degree murder in the death of Marine Lance Cpl. Maria Lauterbach, who had accused him of rape. Her burned remains were found in January in the backyard of his home near Camp Lejeune.
Bearded, thin and chained at the wrists and ankles, Laurean spoke briefly with The Associated Press while being held at the Michoacan state Attorney General's Office in Morelia, the state capital. He appeared slightly disoriented and stared straight ahead, his eyes occasionally filling up with tears as he answered a reporter's questions in terse phrases.
"You know my name. You know who I am," Laurean said. Asked if he wanted to say anything, Laurean answered, "Proof," but wouldn't explain.
Asked what he would do next, he replied, "Do I have a choice? ... I don't know."
The FBI said Laurean, 21, is awaiting extradition to the U.S., although local prosecutors in North Carolina cautioned the process could take a year or more if he decides to fight it. Magdalena Guzman, a prosecutors' spokeswoman, said police carrying out an anti-kidnapping operation stopped Laurean as he wandered on a street because they thought he looked suspicious.
When they realized he didn't speak Spanish well, they became even more suspicious. After running his name through a computer and recognizing his distinctive tattoos they realized Laurean was wanted in the United States to face charges in Lauterbach's death. Guzman said Laurean told the arresting officers he had only 10 pesos about US $1 (euro.60) in his pocket when arrested.
U.S. Ambassador Tony Garza said in a statement that "Laurean fled to Mexico early this year in the hope of avoiding justice" and called the arrest "a clear message to all would-be fugitives from U.S. law that Mexico will not provide them refuge."
Laurean, of Las Vegas, was born in Guadalajara, but family members there have said he moved to the U.S. more than 10 years ago. He had told members of his unit that he would flee to Mexico if it appeared he would be found guilty of rape. Authorities believe he entered Mexico on a bus on Jan. 14.
Lauterbach and Laurean were both personnel clerks in the same logistics unit at Camp Lejeune, an expansive coastal North Carolina base that is home to roughly 50,000 Marines. Detectives believe Laurean killed Lauterbach, who was 20 and eight months pregnant, on Dec. 14 after forcing her to remove money from her bank account.
Detectives have said Laurean left behind a note for his wife in which he denied killing Lauterbach but admitted burying her remains. In the note, Laurean said Lauterbach committed suicide by cutting her own throat.
Authorities rejected the assertion, saying evidence indicates Lauterbach died of blunt force trauma to the head. Authorities rejected the assertion, saying evidence indicates Lauterbach died of blunt force trauma to the head.
Lauterbach accused Laurean of rape last spring, a charge he denied and one that Naval investigators were unable to corroborate. Even though Lauterbach later told investigators she did not feel Laurean posed a danger or threat to her, the pair was separated on base. The Marines have said their regimental commander was intent on taking the case to a hearing that could have led to a trial.
Onslow County District Attorney Dewey Hudson has agreed not to seek execution in order to win the cooperation of Mexico, which refuses to send anyone back to the U.S. unless provided assurance they will not face a death sentence. 10 April I hope he fries!Hello everyone!
I have just returned from work (yes you read that right!) and decided to surf the 'net for a few minutes before turning in and found this. I hope this guy fries because he sure doesn't deserve to wear the uniform. This happened at the same base that Justin was at.
Suspect in pregnant Marine’s death in custodyCorporal who went on the lam after murder in N.C. apprehended in Mexico
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Marine Lance Cpl. Maria Lauterbach, 20, was eight months pregnant when she was murdered.
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Tipped by the note, and not long after authorities went public in their search for the Lauterbach, detectives discovered the charred remains of the missing Marine and her fetus in a shallow grave in Laurean's backyard. Under North Carolina law, Laurean could not be charged in the death of the fetus.
Computer seized
Onslow County District Attorney Dewey Hudson told The Associated Press that investigators recently seized a computer belonging to Christina Laurean's sister, which Christina Laurean was using to communicate with her husband. He said he didn't know if evidence from the computer led directly to Laurean's arrest. He declined to discuss the contents of the communications, but authorities previously said Christina Laurean was cooperating with detectives.
"Just communicating with her husband is not against the law," Hudson said. "To be an accessory after the fact you have to show someone provided assistance like information or money, and we don't have any evidence of that."
Lauterbach and Laurean were both personnel clerks in the same logistics unit at Camp Lejeune, an expansive coastal base that is home to roughly 50,000 Marines. Detectives believe Laurean killed Lauterbach on Dec. 14, after forcing her to remove money from her bank account.
Fled to Mexico in January
Lauterbach accused Laurean of rape last spring, a charge he denied and one that Naval investigators were unable to corroborate. Even though Lauterbach later told investigators she did not feel Laurean posed a danger or threat to her, the pair was separated on base. The Marines have said their regimental commander was intent on taking the case to a hearing that could have led to a trial.
Laurean, of Las Vegas, had told members of his unit he would flee to Mexico if it appeared he would be found guilty. Authorities believe he entered Mexico on a bus on Jan. 14, two days after fleeing from Jacksonville. He was born in Guadalajara, but family members there have said he moved to the U.S. more than 10 years ago.
Marines under fire
Lauterbach's family has criticized the Marine Corps for what they feel was a lack of urgency in investigating the rape allegations. In a letter sent this week to Ohio GOP Rep. Michael Turner, who has rallied to the family's cause, the Marines said no effort was made to question Laurean about Lauterbach's disappearance because the two were no longer working together.
The Corps added the pair were no longer associated as far as their commanders knew and there was no evidence to indicate Laurean had anything to do with her unauthorized absence.
Phone messages seeking comment left at Lauterbach's parents' home in Vandalia, Ohio, at her uncle Pete Steiner's home, and with family attorney Chris Conard were not immediately returned late Thursday. A woman who answered the phone at the home of Laurean's father-in-law, Bruce Shifflet, near Prospect, Ohio, hung up without commenting when told of the arrest.
Mexico hesitated to extradite foreigners for much of the 1980s and 1990s, but U.S. officials have praised the county's increased cooperation in recent years. State Department officials said Mexico extradited 73 suspects to the U.S. in 2007, most to face drug or murder charges.
Extradition fight could take years
Sometimes Mexico will forego the traditional extradition and deport a suspected criminal for entering the country illegally — a much quicker process. More than 150 U.S. citizens were deported from Mexico last year.
Hudson said "it could be a year or two" before authorities are able to bring Laurean back to North Carolina if he decides to fight the extradition process.
"The extradition process is one where you have a right to appeal," Hudson said. "I have no idea whether he would waive extradition."
Should Laurean be returned to North Carolina to stand trial, it would be unlikely he would face the death penalty. Hudson agreed not to seek an execution in order to win the cooperation of Mexico authorities, who refuse to send anyone back to the U.S. unless provided assurance they won't face a death sentence.
"We had intel that he had gone back to America to visit his family in Las Vegas and I was hoping they would arrest him in America," Hudson said. "But they didn't. This is a case that certainly is deserving to be tried as a capital case."
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Hello everyone!
I tried to post this last night but even MSN wasn't helping!
This is something that needs to be said and is really upsetting. I haven't had an entry about "the ladies" for a while since one of them died. I cannot keep this to myself any longer.
As my regular readers know, we have been friends with our older neighbors M. and R. for over eighteen years and M. died right after Thanksgiving last year. R. had a really hard time losing her best friend and sister, so she would call on me as early as 5AM when she freaked out and couldn't find her. They both have dementia and I would come over until she calmed down (usually a few hours, try to catch a cat nap before going to work until 11PM sometimes.) Right after M. died, I went through her rolodex looking for the people to call. The first call was Aunt Jean in TX who is the youngest sister of their mother so she's also close to 90 herself but still lives at home with her daughter living a few blocks away. They would talk once a week or at least every other week for as long as I can remember. The next call I made was to M's friend who lives about 3 miles away and the final call was to cousin, Allan. He lives about 75 miles away from us and said that he was on his way. He drove his Porsche so fast that he was here in about an hour. He was very concerned and upset but of course the story changed...
Very long story short, R. ended up going to his house "until R. could emotionally and physically be available to attend her sister's mass and funeral." That was last year and I haven't been able to talk to her or see her since then. I have spoken to Allan a few times and he has always said that either R. was sleeping or was with his wife shopping. I didn't give it too much thought since I thought I knew this guy well enough and my job and had my mind on so many other things. Well, Aunt Jean and her daughter called me once a month, sometimes twice and we exchanged information about R. and how she must be doing.
In the space of a few days this week, I found out that Allan's phone has been disconnected and things finally fell into place for all three of us. Since there's nothing that I can do since I am not related to either M or R, Aunt Jean and her daughter asked me to speak to the CPA who I did know who set up the trust for M. He was surprised at the things I was able to find on the 'net about Allan and not many things are pretty to read to say the least.
I was able to find out that his company filed for Chapter 11 in December 2002, another company with the same address, phone took its place and had some shady dealings that really made my blood boil. I wish I could tell you more detail but it really doesn't matter to the overall scope of my anger. Now I find out that he started yet another company using the same address, phone but the phone is disconnected as well as the only phone number that we had to speak to R.
I gave all of this information to the CPA and told him that I need to know if he can legally help me in one big area of his expertise. How can we see if Allan has stolen R's money and/or if she has given him power of attorney over her money? He said that he couldn't help me but agreed that something sounded really wrong and advised me to tell Aunt Jean to call the police. I told him that we haven't spoken to or seen R for over four months now and that all three of us are worried sick.
So I called Aunt Jean's daughter and told her what I found out and sent her a detailed email of phone numbers (Local police department, R's doctor, assessor's office etc.) and another email of all of the dirt I dug up about Allan and his business dealings of the stuff I found. She immediately made airplane reservations and called the police department explaining to them the whole thing. The police will be meeting them (Aunt Jean, daughter and daughter's husband) at Allan's house and based on what they find (or not find) they will make a report or more. I have to work tomorrow and cannot get out of it but they will be coming up here and we will meet then. They want to see M and R's houses (which look abandoned since the grass hasn't been mowed in about three months) and it's obvious no one lives there. We don't know what happened to R's cat, Miss Sophia who wasn't able to go to Allan's house. For a very long time; the Saturday before Easter to be exact, R's newspaper was delivered every morning and I would pick it up from the driveway and place it on the bench next to the front door. I would check both houses, and leave notes inside the paper for R. At first, he would drive up daily, then it was every two days, then after a while it was five days. I wasn't given a key to the house after he changed the locks on both houses and he would also get the mail, make sure the bills were paid and feed the cat. I haven't seen the cat for a long time but she likes to hide and since I can only look at the front of the house, the only time I would see her would be when she would be if pushed the drapes aside to look outside.
Tomorrow they will be here armed with the information that I found and we will see what happens.
Please pray that R is okay!
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